A selection of Maitresse Nuit aka Nuit d'Or's articles on the psychology of BDSM & kink, relationship dynamics between Dominant & submissive, adventures in BDSM, evocative, erotic and very transgressive memoirs of past sessions. Here you can dive in the “BDSM Chronicles” which you can listen to on Patreon.
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Beyond the Scene: Service, Reality, and the Substance of Unequal Relationships
“Let’s be candid — for most of us, our initial entry into this fascinating world of unequal relationships and BDSM, is through the lens of fantasy. The irresistible allure of hierarchical structures, the intricate choreography of high protocol, and the intoxicating dynamics associated with power—whether it be in submission or control—are undeniably compelling and captivating. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that initial attraction. “
BDSM POWER GAMES: PUSHING LIMITS and PLAYING AT THE EDGE OF THE UNBEARABLE.
“I want him to endure for my pleasure, though not at my hands. I will not be the one feeding him the energy of dominance; I will watch, preside, and contain the scene within the hierarchy of power: Maîtresse at the pinnacle, Master as the executor, and [helot] as the supplicant and devotee.”
SELF-CARE FOR DOMINANTS© | SELF-PACED ONLINE COURSE
'By honouring where we are at any given time, what we need from ourselves, our submissives, and the world, we can truly enjoy our art / practice and Domme from a “filled tank”, from abundance. "